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DO YOU BELIEVE THAT "HOPE" CHANGES EVERYTHING?

5/25/2016

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Since Christmas, 2015, I have had a deep chest cough that continues to be relentless.  Visiting my family doctor, the emergency room, having a CT Scan, X-rays, and taking all kinds of meds and antibiotics hadn’t helped at all.  The last 2 weeks my condition worsened to it’s low point of coughing every minute of every day and night.  I was exhausted and had much abdominal pain due to all of the coughing. 
 
Finally I was able to get an appointment with a pulmonologist.  HOPE!   Then hours before that appointment I got a call that it was going to need to be postponed because the doctor had an emergency surgery during my appointment time.  During the next 3 days until I could have the appointment, HOPELESSNESS set in.  I was amazed what crazy thoughts began going through my mind including ​“do I even want to live if this is the way it’s going to be?”
 
This Monday I finally had the appointment with the pulmonologist and had an intense coughing spell in his office.  He listened closely and asked many questions.  After reviewing the CT Scan and X-rays, he showed that he was taking my situation very seriously but still had no answers.  He put me on 3 powerful medications and wants to meet me again in a week.  While I have seen a little improvement from the meds, the biggest thing that I walked out of his office with was and is HOPE!  I do believe that we are taking the right steps to work through this and as a result, I am finding it much easier to trust God for the results.
 
This all reminds me of some fundamental truths that remove much stress from our lives…
  • Things are rarely as good as they seem or as bad as they seem.
  • Where we are at on any given day is not our destination.  Rather, it’s just one day of our journey.
  • Talk openly with somebody you trust when you’re feeling hopeless.
  • Never make major decisions when you’re feeling bad or hopeless.
  • Think closely about what you are placing your hope and trust in.
  • We can choose our attitude.
 
Please remember that HOPE CHANGES EVERYTHING! 

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HOW DO YOU HANDLE CHANGE?

5/11/2016

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Many people seem to resist change, don’t they?  Why is that?  Harvard Business Review states that loss of control, uncertainty, and the element of surprise are among the leading reasons for the resistance.
 
So why should we be willing to embrace change?  Many leaders over the years have repeated this statement, “If you’re not moving forward, you’re moving backward.”  And if you’re feeling ‘stuck’ in life, Albert Einstein graced us with these words, “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
 
Take a minute to think about how we communicate, travel, live, and work.  Would any of it have happened without change?
 
What element of change are you facing right now?  Remember that today is the first day of the rest of your life.  Consider embracing it and grow as you travel on your life journey.  And your purpose and joy will begin expanding.

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HOW DO YOU FEEL WHEN YOU ARE BLAMED?

5/4/2016

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I don’t know about you, but when I get blamed for something, what do you think my natural response is?  I get defensive.  I’m guessing that is the sense that is true for you and most humans as well.
 
Isn’t it much more effective to solve problems when we simply talk about what happened rather than whose fault it was?  Then when each party takes responsibility for their part, the solutions typically begin appearing.  And if I am the first to take responsibility, how much easier is it for the other party to do the same?
 
The sign of maturity is to learn to take responsibility for yourself and your actions.  In the end, in some instances when the other party doesn’t want to play ball, it may require you to just forgive the other party even though you think they may not deserve it, and drop the grudge.  No use losing twice.  Along with that come peace, joy, and a free conscience. 


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    Since his retirement in 2011, Roger Laidig has been filled with the desire to help people find Purpose and Joy in life.

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